Purposeful Play and the Role of Discipline

Rethinking ‘purpose’

Setting up classrooms before the onset of the term is one of the most interesting, creative and as well as daunting task for any preschool teacher. Their ingenuity, creativity, fun element, ideas of child development, pedagogy and level of interaction with the kids are up for completely authentic analysis. The inquisitive eyes that will take in everything on the first few days, will determine how well you have planned and how the term is going to move forward. The ‘dramatic play’ centre is always the most challenging, layered and thought-out area. It is where most of the action takes place!

Jean Piaget, was one of the first psychologists to make a systematic study of child’s cognitive development. He found the role of play crucial and have stated various stages of play in tandem with the child’s developmental and biological age. “Play is the work of children” he had stated, emphasising the importance of play in the context of early childhood development of children According to Vygotsky, play enables children to regulate their internal capacities of managing actions among many other things.

Winnicott states that “it is only in playing that the child or the adult is free to be creative.” Child development theorists, child psychologists, teachers, parents and adults, emphasise the role of ‘play’ in the life world of a child. In a classroom, nothing elicits more joy than the two words “play time”! It is an indicator of a time where the children can be themselves, doing what they do best.

Play enables them to be themselves, share their emotions, imagine scenarios, build language competencies, solve problems and build their physical coordination. It enables them to form relationships and manage them. Ideate on rules and boundaries. Develop a sense of right and wrong, acceptable and unacceptable. It capacitates them to understand, create and respect boundaries. They do it all by themselves, without adult intervention, intention and interference. The question here is an attempt to understand the oxymoron like phrase, ‘purposeful play’. A relatively new idea in the block, ‘purpose’ has taken over ‘play’ in most of its applications. Perhaps it is also time to rethink what we perceive as ‘purpose’ and ‘learning’.

If a child is to have freedom for growth it must have freedom to regulate its own life, freedom from interference and supervision… To encourage the children to set their own bounds and to reason out their own discipline, needs a real faith in their capacity and a real courage—the courage to stand by and watch mistakes being made without constantly interfering to set everything right.

(Rabindranath Tagore Pioneer in Education, Essays and Exchanges between Rabindranath
Tagore and L.K Elmhirst)

This idea of a classroom where the children learn to set their boundaries, rules and understanding of what is helpful and what isn’t, resonates in the writings of Gijubhai Bhadeka as well. He has worked and written extensively on children and learning in the contexts of schools and outside. His work and philosophy developed in 1920’s still hold relevance and. application in our modern first world classroom context (Diwaswapan, Gijubhai Bhadeka)

Unknowingly and unconsciously, the same idea resonated in the numerous games played with the neighbourhood kids in the growing up years of many adults. It is still evident in the parks and playgrounds, open spaces not much of which is left, thanks to our relentless development. What is then happening in the classrooms of the institutions?

Schools are tightly bound by unseen shackles called curriculum, administration and management. The Holy Trinity of the institutions decides the fate of the teachers and children issuing a dictum about what is perceived to be ‘learning’ and ‘discipline’ and ‘desirable’.

The teachers in the classroom are ever more vigilant now. Armed with the checklists, phones, apps and tools they document every move, every action and inaction, every conversation, they are on a constant look out for that errant child who dreams, gazes, reflects, takes up more time, doesn’t feel like sharing, moves on to the next ‘learning centre’ doesn’t keep the materials back, doesn’t ask the right questions or talks too loudly! They are quick to note it down, analyse, discuss, diagnose and suggest a remedy! The untroubled calm of conventional classroom, where teachers deliver and children assimilate is maintained through imposed discipline. A façade is created of uniformity with only a sprinkle of questions during a certain ‘planned time’. It is quite alright to rest the little grey cells at the other times! The teachers cannot be solely blamed in this entire set up. Apart from a myriad of issues they also have superiors to report to, who have perhaps their own chains to unshackle.

The errant child of five or six is identified as the one with a ‘problem’ who is not able to respond to the purpose of the purposeful play. The ‘café’ that was set up in the classroom losses its element of play under the burdensome purpose of asking the right question, “how much is the bread?” Classrooms are confined spaces. Confined by time, flexibility, physical space they perhaps leave little room to manoeuvre. Over and above the objective driven day leaves little room for imagination and exploration of joy. Teachers are strictly instructed to instil discipline and include ‘teaching moments’ throughout the day. The more the merrier.

However, classrooms are not just about teaching letters numbers and geography. They are not about teaching or imparting from one on the podium to the rest on the floor. It is not about a hierarchy of knowledge. On the contrary, it is a place of mutual learning, conversations, dialogues, creative bursts, imagination, debates, disagreements, dreaming and a lot of fun! We need not look for teaching moments all the time. Perhaps it is time to ask the teachers and members of the management, what have you learnt from the children today?

If we stop looking for the purpose in the play, we, the adults will come home with authentic lessons of acceptance, problem solving, camaraderie, respect, laughter, looking beyond differences and the sheer joy of being there and doing nothing! Just because sometimes, ‘doing nothing often leads to the very best of something’- Winnie the Pooh

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Dissolving into Cafe Lattes

Another news of a bookstore downsizing.

One of the few remaining bookstores, Books Kinokuniya has always been a favourite place for many different reasons for many years now. The excitement when this huge space was opened is still palpable! At the first visit, it seemed never ending. I had become ‘Bastian Balthazar Bux’ and was journeying into Fantastica, one door opening into another! When my daughters were small, it was a place where my elder one would almost always be lost. She would be submerged in the world of Percy Jackson or lost in the Land of Stories! A considerable amount of time would go to find her. She was about 7 or 8 years old. Children of her age did not have smart phones in their hands then. It was many years ago. Books Kinokuniya opened a couple of more outlets over the next few years. Closed those down. Downsized their flagship store to almost half its original size. Now, it is downsizing again, to accommodate a café! Make no mistake, I am a huge fan of cafés as well! The very ambience, the aroma of coffee, the company of friends and many a times myself, have always been my favourite haunts. However, they simply can’t replace bookshops. That sounds, well, wrong. I am sure many would share similar views.

That brings me to the question of why? Not why the bookstores all over the world are gradually shutting down, but why are the people who read reducing so very rapidly?

Is the availability or accessibility of e-Books alone the sole reason or even the substantial reason? Or is there a general decline in the love for printed words?

What are the children, young adults and adults engaged in these days? What are the psychologically stimulating activities that people are engaged in these days?

What are the young school going children doing when they have free time? With the number of instructions that are given at every step of the way, are we taking away their agency to think by themselves? “We need stories to understand ourselves” Rushdie, Writing Masterclass. After safety and love, the first thing that a child asks for is a story. Stories are all around us. In small little everyday incidents, to major historical and social transformations, our lives are not short of dramas! And yet we love to hear and tell more. The interesting gossip, the life changing moment, the fabulous trip, the incident at the restaurant, the debate on feminism, the experience in the train after many years, all hold a story within themselves. Waiting to be told, waiting to be heard.
Then why did we stop reading? Working on a school project a few years back, I was having conversations with colleagues and parents on ‘reading’.

To my immense chagrin, many answers were “I used to read when I was younger, now I don’t.” There were no answers to my why’s. During the said project and as a part of it, we had a workshop for the parents, on reading and storytelling. We attempted to share the importance of books, reading, libraries, stories with the parents and its paramount role in shaping the child’s personality and psyche. Many of the teachers sounded forced. Rehearsed. They lacked the conviction to carry the message through. Most of the parents shared, they don’t read! They seldom get books. It would have been unimaginable situation twenty years back. I would see many people in the public transport opening the book at the bookmarked page the moment they got a seat. That’s a rare sight now. A very rare sight. I have also come across this statement, “there is no space at home”, and they are not living from the closet.

The space is often occupied with innumerable clothes, shoes and other essentials. “I have no patience” is another well heard response. Maybe picking something that interests you, would easily address the lack of patience. In school, the hectic curriculum and the zeal to ‘teach’ the children everything has constricted story time. That’s the first thing that is taken away. Readings of number and science takes precedence. Stories are magical. How have we as adults, forgotten about the adventures of Nancy Drew, the detective with an egg-shaped head who would make his grey cells work, Alice as she fell down the rabbit hole, Guy Montag, the fireman who burns books? We, as members of the society, constantly learn from each other.

In social learning theory of development, Bandura emphasises on the role of the adults in society. Children learn from the environment and from others. If they see their family members read, value books, have conversations about them, engage in visiting book fairs and libraries, they will imbibe the trait as well. Children who read, often, have parents who read. I used to ask in my class sometimes, how many of your parents read? It was reassuring to see a least some of them raise their hands and explain their observations.

I still remember one response very vividly. A child of 6 at that time, Yazhini said, “my daddy reads. He brings books from India. Some are old and covered with newspaper”, something many of us are used to do as well, especially with old books! My very kind and long-time assistant, a house help who became a member of my household, had been with me for 14 years. She would often ask me to suggest a read for her from my bookshelves.

She gave books to me and my daughter as gifts on our birthdays as I would give her! Book shops are a place of belonging for me. One of my favourite places to be when I am in India are the many bookstores. It used to be the bookfairs during college days. The romantic exhilaration of those days! My companion by my side. We still visit, but it is dominantly the bookstores now. Always returning with two or three paper bags. Coming home and going through the purchases one by one. Letting him write my names in each of them. It is like someone returning again and again to the same self.

Bookstores are not just a place to hang out. They are the very labyrinths of memory itself. The past, present and future, dreams, imaginations, ideas, amazements, frustrations, excitement. We are a dying breed. We the people who are in love with this act of looking through the shelves, picking out the ones our eyes rest upon, breathing deep into the crisp pages, hugging the bag close, proud of our purchase. After that sitting in the café and opening them one by one, with the steaming latte beside!

Back home, finding places for the new members. There is always a place for a loved one! Cafes are places to meet people. Engage in discourses, conversations, births new ideas and opens possibilities, form relationships, catch up on one another, laugh and be with friends, talk about lives.

Bookstores, reading, however enables to form ideas that spark conversations and discourses, perceive gaps that enables efforts, seek questions that addresses the wrongs, create agency to look beyond what is shown, forge relationships beyond the realms of known and familiar, create a new world!

A reading of ‘Untouchable’ would perhaps enable us to investigate the character of ‘Hatoda Tyagi’ with more objective sensitivity. The systemic violence and the ease with which injustice dished out over generations to the marginalised is felt deeper than the comment of “it’s so sad!” Or perhaps the ambition of ‘Tara’ to climb up the social ladder and carve a name for herself, can be better understood after readings of Deborah Levy’s Cost of Living.

Let’s keep our conversations alive without destroying the agency to question things around us, imagine, dream!! Mere chatting and ‘catching up’ would not be sustainable perhaps. We do not have the time for just ‘catching up over latte’ anymore!

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